Today’s prompt on Ethical ELA is to write a poem based on a t-shirt we own. The prompt invites writers to explore the message, the occasion or travel in which we received the shirt. As I thought about this prompt, I was reminded of so many things. My husband’s side of the family have reunions and will create their own humorous family sayings. I have to hunt one of those down today. Lately, I’ve noticed bars and restaurants have jerseys hanging high on walls as either a memorial for a lost loved one or in memory of past sporting days. T-shirts really are a significant cultural item, and I’m excited to try to find some of my favorite t-shirts tucked away in drawers, closets, or the cedar chest. It will be like a great treasure hunt of memories. When I’m feeling particularly down, I’ll go to a drawer and pull out one of Alex’s t-shirts and wear it. It just makes me feel closer to him.

One of my all-time favorite t-shirts was created especially for me. Right??? It was when I was probably about 19 or 20. A local artist was doing a window painting for a bar I worked at. We clicked and he made me one where I am Merlin from The Once and Future King character. It’s tan and beautiful. I’ll never be able to wear it again. It’s more like a hanky…oh, the joy of getting older and fat.

I spent the day rummaging around, looking for that specific t-shirt, and I’m sure I would have never thrown it away, but I couldn’t find it. I did find the following t-shirt that was done by the same artist. Werni’s Tap was a favorite hangout of mind. I used to work there for a short time as well as a few other bars when I was going to college. In the t-shirt, you’ll see Jim’s self-portrait on the left, a guy that worked there but I cannot remember his name. On the right is Werni. I remember him making fun of my ability to shoot pool. My skills did improve and I’ve always wanted a pool table of my own, but I don’t shoot pool very often anymore. Just like I don’t work at bars anymore either.

As I searched for t-shirts, I recalled so many memories from IHSSA Speech contests, NHD contests, to my sons’ ball teams, to my own stage performances, my favorite artists and distant travels, and the saddest kind of t-shirt, the ones you buy to help support a particular cause. Truly t-shirts are an amazing window into memories. So let this Tuesday be a “Salute to t-shirts!”

Today’s poetry response:

I remember

shooting pool; looking cool

sipping beer at Werni’s

meeting Jim

who painted the bar’s window

and a magical t

just for me

the Wizard of Werni’s

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6 responses to “Salute toT-shirts and a story”

  1. kimhaynesjohnson Avatar

    Barb, I love the walk down memory lane to Wernis and I also love that you feel close to Alex when you wear his shirt – – like a hug! You are so right – – tshirts are a staple of our fashion culture in the US. I think, too, of our tshirts that we wore at NCTE – – they unified us in a visible way. I have made the t-shirt quilts, too – a great way to preserve the shirts and stay warm. Love your post today, and I’m glad you found the shirt so we could see the front of the Wernis Tap!

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  2. Maureen Young Ingram Avatar

    Barb, I love reading the ‘whole’ story of your marvelous t-shirt poem here. I love the artistry of the t-shirt you share a picture of! What a fun time you had at that bar. I am struck by how much more open and positive you are about all the t-shirts accumulated through the years than I am – oh my, you are right, they are “a great treasure hunt of memories.” What a gut reality-check you wrote with, “When I’m feeling particularly down, I’ll go to a drawer and pull out one of Alex’s t-shirts and wear it. It just makes me feel closer to him.” – this is beautiful, truly; sad and beautiful. My husband did the same with a couple t-shirts of his father, after he died. Yes, I mustn’t get rid of every single t-shirt when I finally get around to culling.

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    1. Barb Edler Avatar

      Maureen, I found some baby clothes, too, some were maybe mine or siblings and some of the boys. Heartbreak! It’s hard for me to throw things away, but truly I need to do that. I shared that point with my husband, too. We plan to cull clothes for Goodwill, but I will not part with many things. Someone else will have to throw that out when I’m gone.

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  3. Denise Krebs Avatar
    Denise Krebs

    Barb,
    Like Maureen, I was struck with pulling out and wearing one of Alex’s t-shirts. That is beautiful and sad. Blessings to you as you continue to grieve and hold Alex in your heart.

    I love the rhyming in your poem. The sing-song rhythm is fun to read. “a magical t / just for me” — that was a great story you told us about.

    By the way, well done on this blog post! Your voice really comes through. I just subscribed to your new blog. Congratulations. You will figure things out as you go. Dare to click, I always tell people. I’d be happy to help you if you ever want to chat about what’s happening on your WordPress blog.

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    1. Barb Edler Avatar

      Denise, I definitely will! Thank you!

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  4. Trish Avatar
    Trish

    T-shirts are most definitely windows into the past. I loved looking through yours. (I have gotten rid of so many of mine when I moved or just lost them along the way, but your post made me think back to my very favorites. First among them is a Christo shirt I bought when he wrapped the islands in pink while I was living in Miami. There’s a post there for shirt!) Love “the hug” comment Kim made; you inspired her, too.

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